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I Lost. Where Did I Put My Big Boy Pants??

I did not vote for Donald Trump. I didn’t vote for him for dozens of reasons. And in the primary, I did not vote for Hillary Clinton. So I guess I’m “one of those”. For all of you reading that did vote for Trump, congratulations. It’s a tough pill to swallow today, & I don’t have much else to say there… but, he is my nations leader in a couple months. I’ll pray for him like I have for Pres. Obama. I promise. 

So now what?

First, I am a white (mostly Scottish, English, & Cherokee, I think), Christian, college educated, & a middle-class fella. So if I speak for any group, that’s the one. And I’m a Democrat that almost never votes straight ticket. In fact, this is the first time I’ve ever voted for a presidential candidate that lost. I’m 36. 

I say that to say this… I will not be telling African Americans how to feel. I will not be advising women. I can’t tell the lower or upper classes how to handle this. If you didn’t vote for President-Elect Trump, & you meet most of my demographics, I am talking to you. And if you aren’t in those circles, I hope this is helpful in some small way.

Election Night

When Florida & Virginia numbers first started coming out, I was worried. I saw the county map & knew he’d successfully mobilized rural America, & was closer than Romney was to Obama in the largely blue counties. I told Grace I was worried. It never got better. Media stopped spinning & started asking real questions, so that was nice. But by & large, it was awful to watch. 

Parker headed for bed around 8:30pm here on the West Coast. He was disappointed. He likes Hillary because ‘she smiles better’ & ‘likes brown people’ & ‘she doesn’t say mean things’. So I’m probably going to ban him from watching coverage of polling. I don’t want him to create negative opinions of the people who voted against his opinions. We have enough of that amongst the grown-ups. 

Uneducated White Women 

I watched CNN until it was basically over. Then I was just watching to see how Fox & MSNBC were handling the reality. But CNN didn’t really use the phrase ‘uneducated white women‘. I started seeing it on social media & found out a major cable network or two was wearing the phrase out. CNN was polling large turnout for ‘non-college white women‘. 

First, current polling suggests that this apparent large turnout is not true. Gotta love polling 🙄

Second, words matter. Someone on national television called my mom uneducated. My mom is a conservative Christian with an important job overseeing proposals for millions in grant money for Duke University health systems. She’s not only smart, but also self-educated & has taken numerous business classes because business is her career. She is not uneducated. And the phrase wreaks of elitism & prejudice against people, & in this case women, that don’t have college degrees. It was inappropriate & a missed opportunity to properly characterize a sizeable populous in our nation. I love you Mom.

Mom Is Wrong

Ok, Mom isn’t wrong. I just wanted a catchy subtitle. But she & I don’t vote very similarly, so we don’t discuss a lot about politics. However, I know she can be counted in the millions of us that have looked at the two main party candidates with befuddled expressions, & wondered aloud, “Really? These are the options?!?”

But she’s my mom. I love my mom. I’m grateful for the faith she helped me cultivate, the family that she & Dad made for my sister & me, the way she loves my wife, & the relentless depths to which she spoils my sons. She loves Jesus simply. She knows theology & doctrine, but she just loves Jesus. And I think that has shaped my love of Jesus & humanity more than anything I’ve ever read or been taught. So when it comes to my mom, disagreeing with her is not more important than loving her. She’s my mom, & my sister in Christ, & she human. I love me some humans. 

Loving Through Disagreement

I can’t tell if today has been awful or inspiring. I’ve argued all morning on social media. I’ve had text message duels with some of my favorite people. I’ve had my faith called into question because I’m not more anti-abortion than human equality. I’ve been called a few names, & none of them by strangers. I’ve probably lost friends today. And I think this has happened because we’ve ALL traded in our decency for some policies & fears. 

So to some of my former students, I’m sorry we’ve argued. If in my debating, I failed to remind you or uphold the measure to which I love you, I am so sorry. To my family members that don’t like my views or posts or blogs, etc., I’m not trying to attack you. But I am probably trying to offend you. And I’m sorry that the road to understanding has to cross through offense. Again, we are ALL becoming way more political than we are compassionate. And I forget that sometimes. And if you are one of those few people who look to me as a leader in faith or thought or social responsibility, & I didn’t say enough or I said too much or you assumed that being a Christian & a pastor meant I was a Republican, I am so sorry that I disappointed you, but…

Disagreeing Through Love

We don’t agree. 

I think that you can’t call yourself Pro-Life if there is any scenario, no matter how bizarre or vile, where you would permit a woman or female child to have an abortion. If you have one scenario that you can concoct that allows for a fetus or embryo to be terminated, you’re Pro-Choice. And that needs to be thought through & dealt with honestly, first in your own heart, & then with people you trust. And then maybe see who is actually getting abortions & why. 

I think African Americans & Latino Americans are the most marginalized & quietly despised ethnicities in American history. I think we have a system that batters them & then tells them to unify with us. And I can’t be quiet about human injustice. The are more people involved in ethnic hate groups right now in America than at any other time in our history. Absorb that. Change that. Fight that. 

I think our prisons are full of black men who shouldn’t be there. 

I think Big Business has butchered the Constitution & bastardized our free market. Nothing is free now. And the cost is steep, well beyond the dollars & cents. 

I think we’ve taxed college students by giving them a minimum wage that falls well beneath inflation, & tuition rates that cripple economic freedom for most that are engaged in the system. 

I think we’ve created a poverty class that has little to no hope of overcoming the economics of their situation because the media calls them uneducated or worse, pundits over promise & under deliver, many of our policies perpetuate classism, & Americans that aren’t poor are largely ignoring Americans that are poor!! 

…..

And if you’re reading this, feeling flush & getting red in the face, then we disagree. Some of those bullets points are economic, & you might be able to teach me something that grows my knowledge, & therefore my opinions on it. Cool. Teach away. 

But on some of these disagreements, I am steadfast in my conviction that change must be the order. We are as racially divided as ever. I don’t blame anyone. Blame is for people who don’t want to be bothered with correcting the problem. But our system is tilted in favor of… me. And I love humanity too much to have a Brad-first society. I like diversity too much to favor one small fraction of the ‘haves’ over the growing number of outsiders that exist around me.

So I love you, but we disagree. And I’m not going to be getting over it. But I swear, I love you. 

One Last Thing, Dear Black People…

This part is for all of you still reading that aren’t a group that looks like me, but it’s especially for African Americans. 

I’m heartbroken for America today. I’m afraid for you, especially if stop & frisk is brought back into the forefront of policing. And if the brokenness in our justice system isn’t confronted. And for whatever you felt compelled to tell your children this morning. 

I do trust God today. But I’m reminded this morning, of how Christ responded to the death of his friend Lazarus. Jesus, knowing God’s will fully & completely, knew that his friend wasn’t truly gone. He knew a miracle was coming. But in the moment, at that awful place where someone else’s pain is tangible, Jesus cried. So trusting God, I weep with you today. 

I do not understand. I’m a white guy. I can’t possibly understand. But I will fight for you. And I will believe that your mourning will be turned to joy. And I will fight for that joy. And while I’m fighting for your rights in our free nation, if I can encourage Latinos, Muslims, homosexuals, the poor, refugees, & the imprisoned as well, well I’m going to do that too.

I love you guys. All of you reading this. Let’s think together, love together, & walk together. 

I John 4:7-12, 15-18 read it & dream

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A World of Difference, Pt. 1

I went to South Asia. Just sounds a little odd. I got invited by one of our pastors, I prayed with Grace about it, said yes, raised support, paid for some of it on our own, planned, prayed, & studied… then I flew to the other side of the world.

I flew to a place where evangelism is illegal. I evangelized. I flew to a place where I was a multiple minority: Christian, white, financially well-off (by comparison), & clearly unfamiliar with my surroundings. I was in a place that was hot, humid, overpopulated, & more culturally diverse than any place I’ve ever seen. It smelled weird… did I mention the heat? The food confused me. I couldn’t drink the water. Electricity just cut off any time of day…

And I loved just about every minute of it.

I’m not sure I’d call me a missionary. Perhaps a missionary encourager. A glorified cheerleader. I did teach a couple times, & I did get to spend amazing time with locals, but mostly, I watched heroes love strangers, share God’s love, & get nothing in return. Eternal investing. That’s what I watched. And back for two weeks, I’m still a bit overwhelmed by the experience. But this will be my vain attempt to ‘blog’ it out. I saw that there is a world of difference between claiming the mission of the Gospel & laying hold to it, living it, laying all down for it. I got to live among missionaries…

And he said to them, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest. Go your way; behold, I am sending you out as lambs in the midst of wolves. Carry no moneybag, no knapsack, no sandals, and greet no one on the road. Whatever house you enter, first say, “Peace be to this house!” And if a son of peace is there, your peace will rest upon him. But if not, it will return to you. And remain in the same house, eating and drinking what they provide, for the laborer deserves his wages. Do not go from house to house. Whenever you enter a town and they receive you, eat what is set before you. Heal the sick in it and say to them, “The kingdom of God has come near to you.” But whenever you enter a town and they do not receive you, go into its streets and say, “Even the dust of your town that clings to our feet we wipe off against you. Nevertheless know this, that the kingdom of God has come near.” Luke 10:2-11 ESV

Laborers – Oh, they’re out there. They are dedicated, missionally driven, sacrificial, & excellent. But they must be more of them! And I’m not beginning to say ‘Just go!’. My concern is that we aren’t thinking about the world’s lost state with our Christ-mindedness in tact. ‘Not me.’ ‘I don’t know anything about missions.’ ‘Someone should really do something about that.’

I dare you to go. I dare you to go clueless, humble, prayed up, & eager to see God move. You won’t be disappointed. And if God has a stateside calling on your life, you will be better for the journey. I can hear the leader of the team we were with right now… ‘We just want people to come here & help. Two weeks. Six months. Two years. Just come!’

The Harvest – I’m dedicating the next blog to these people. And make no mistake. The mission, the harvest, is people. Christ’s love is towards people for God’s glory. And the people we were with were amazing. The harvest alone, is reason enough for me to return there again.

‘Go your way’ – Out there in this world are people dedicated to a mission that is not always easy. Really, the success rate is low. The perks are… not perks. But people are experiencing life change. Lost are found. Broken are healed. Those kept in chains are being set free. The call of the Lord is being heard in S Asia. And these men & women who have chosen to go the way of the Lord are heroes.

I can’t wait to write out more about my time overseas. There are great stories. And it will be broken down this way:

I’ve seen the next generations of Islam, Christianity, martyrdom, & poverty on this trip. And I love them all.

More to come…

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We Hold These Truths…

I am not politically savvy. I’m not even a fan of politics, at least on the national level. But as it relates to the language of our country’s founding documents, I’m a big fan. I love the words & phrases used throughout our revolutionary history. And my favorite fragment is this blog’s title…

‘We hold these truths to be self-evident.’

As far as I can tell, the self-evident portion is just snappy English that denotes that all signing this document are unanimous in their approval of these ‘truths’ that they consider obvious, forthright, & worthy of declaring. But ‘we hold these truths’ could be the slogan used in law texts, a creed preceding the Hippocratic Oath, every good businesses strategy for a continuity of ideologies, & more to my thoughts today, should be what every church is using to begin their list of theology & doctrine… their vision statements.

‘We’ – all of us. Is that every member? Or maybe every staff member? We’ll go with staff & key leadership, because it is might be unrealistic to think that every leader can properly vet every member of their fellowship to see if they all agree on key theological issues. It might not even be right to do so. I don’t know. But it would certainly be uncomfortable, awkward, & off-putting to go pew by pew (upholstered chair by chair, for you rebels), with that questionnaire. So let’s say that ‘we’ could be a reference to the pastoral & lay leadership of your church & anyone who was there when the vote took place that one time. A unanimous stance by those called out & affirmed to lead your personal fellowship of the saints, that they believe in one view of God, Christ, Church, salvation, Scripture, sin, etc. But it would be more than a unanimous statement wouldn’t it? I think, done right, it would be a corporate passion.

‘hold’ – cling to. Whether we’re discussing something revolutionary, like nation-building, or something supernatural, like Jesus Christ & his atoning sacrifice, sinless life, unique human deity, unparalleled genealogy, discipleship, words, walk, miracles, & character, our grip on those ideas & beliefs are paramount to our beliefs & life choices. If I don’t cling desperately to Christ as the Son of God, then adhering to His decrees are no longer paramount. So again… holding. This act of passion & determination is not merely a simple touch, but the clasping of hands between one who is drowning & one who is saving. I’ve seen emails concluded just that way:

G(r)asping for Him with you

That’s awesome.

These – as in, a unique set that we have not only seen & understood, but that we now consider a possession. THESE truths – the ones right here – whether in my hands or beholden to my heart, THESE truths – for an American it may be the equality of every man & woman or the right to practice our faiths, but for the Christian, THESE truths do have, in my limited understanding of Scripture, a pinnacle truth.

Truths – this is where politics begins its division from God. Right at the beginning, a small, minuscule division is born. Truths. Plural. Franklin & Madison held truths. None more important than the other. And in the realm of this world, they were not wrong, not off, & were deeply honorable. And American historians may well disagree with me that one truth did not unite them, but what is written & held to in America is just degrees away from God’s Word.

I remember watching the Apollo 13 movie. And my heart raced to think that they had one shot to hit Earth. But how could they miss a planet?!? They could miss the whole world by starting just one degree off. And then they’d be lost to the darkness of space. It was a thrilling movie. And they hit the mark.

But my favorite line fragment from our founding documents is, to me, just a degree off. And more than 200 years later, we’re seeing the degree difference of 1776 become something of a chasm in 2012. Admirable truths, short of one overarching truth, still fall short. And that is heart-breaking & saddening.

Jesus Christ, through His life, ministry, sinlessness, conviction, torture, murder, sacrifice, resurrection, & eternal reign, has atoned any who would believe, of their separation from God. He is the only way of John 14:6. He is the Son of God. He is the Truth above all other truths.

I believe in a number of things. I believe in equality, justice, peace, love, doing what you have a passion for, kindness, gentleness, that UNC may be anointed as God’s university (kidding… just some levity)…. I believe in so many good & righteous things. But holy isn’t holy without Christ. And a nation built on Biblical principles by Christian men & women is not a Christian nation without Jesus at the helm of it.

This Jesus, the Savior of the world, is the only truth that the Church holds to be self-evident. We are a body of many parts, but there is one head to this body. We are global & diverse, but there is one Lord over us. Different languages, traditions, ideas on worship, programming, meeting styles, individual freedoms… a smattering of differences. One Truth.

We hold this Jesus Christ… to be unique, almighty, & returning.

Strip away freedoms, we hold Christ. Take away marriage, commerce, global communication, technology, & even the promise of individuality, & Christ would still be Lord, so Christianity would not die. The body lives because of Christ. No Christ? No body. Always Christ? Always believers. Where faith is illegal, faith lives. Where nations are godless, the Spirit-filled can dwell. And we prevail because of one never-changing, ever-living Truth. Jesus the Christ. Amen.

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